Least important , most usual!

I don't know what u think, but I just can say with no doubt that almost every important things in my life, those that I just so depend on, are not really THAT important!
I mean:
Graduation? Not really!
Job? I can count tons of unemployees whom live happily!
Money? Yeah, it rulls! But I know people that were totally broken, but they just still living and carry on to their lives!
So then what IS important?
Family? Friends? Uhmm.. They're may be more important than the other things I count above, but are they really that important that we can't live without'em? I don't think so! I do love my parents and admire my friends, but sometimes I just think they're getting my way to be a person that I must be! I'm talking about social rulls that force us depend on our family and make us to try so hard to be accepted by our friends and society!
So then what is actually the most non-avoidable thing in human's life?
Like to read it from you!
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No judgment!

I passed these days thinking that how the world would be without any judgments. I mean REALLY no judgments. Even if we're listening to s.o who we know for sure is a ...(well it's a judgment! Ain't it?)
I've been judged alot, all of my life, and there'll be alot of them going on and on! I know that I just shouldn't pay attention or sth, but is it really the solution? Cause I know for sure that it will have its effects on my life, one way or another.
I know , I know , we're definitely not living in utopia... But why don't we try to make our lives, personally, a good one!
What d'ya think? Should we care, or just let it be the way it always been?

Hellllllo!!!

Hiya , everyone.
this is a blog that just gives me a chance to share how wise i think i am , how funny i feel i am and sometimes how freak i look at the moment!!! i'm so sure you all had experience that , once. all together!!!
so i really be glad if you just share your feelings with me!!!